D'artagnan

Don't follow if

• You like provoking, exposing, or embarrassing other people
• You live off of passive-aggressive subtweets
• You turn any disagreement into a fight
• You don't respect boundaries
• You treat closeness as a free pass
• You need to know everything about other people's lives
• You think irony justifies anything
• You can't hear something without immediately filing it under "woke", "redpill", "cancel culture", etc.
• You have an extremely rigid view of gender and need everyone to fit it
• You treat people like a character, a stereotype, or a category
• You need to turn everything into a competition
• You expect me to be coherent, productive, or interesting 100% of the time

Know before you follow

This is a closed, personal account. I post a lot of random stuff and don't have a calendar, a fixed theme, or an editorial line. Sometimes I talk about work. Sometimes about games. Sometimes about music. Sometimes about something I'm studying. Sometimes about sex. Sometimes I overshare about how I'm feeling. I also go around interacting with everything and everyone. Friends, strangers, women, men, anyone. It's not selective, it's not a declaration of interest — my profile isn't a catalog of intentions. I can change subjects five times in the same day. I don't expect you to like everything. I just expect you to be able to coexist with someone who isn't perfectly categorizable. If that's up for debate for you, DNF — I'm not interested in discussing the basics. I'm not looking for a fight in the replies.

About me

I'm looking to start actually living for the first time — building a good little corner for myself, staying at peace. Keeping to myself, at peace. And maybe a bit about the things I'm building, too. I don't exactly have a niche. I'd rather fall into subjects I find interesting and stay in them for way too long. I like learning things that seem to have absolutely nothing to do with each other and then finding out that, somehow, they connect.

Now

Likes

Kinlist

Ask me if you want — why I identify with whoever you're curious about

Dislikes

• Shallow takes dressed up as deep
• Wall-of-text posts with no paragraphs
• People who turn everything into a competition
• Condescension disguised as advice
• People who think disagreeing is automatically fighting
• Irony used just to humiliate other people
• People who make jokes at someone's expense and then call it 'being sensitive' when that person doesn't like it
• People who reduce others to a single trait
• Gatekeeping taste, hobbies, or fandoms
• Intellectual arrogance
• Denying complexity just because something is popular
• Being treated like I have to fit into a single personality or interest

Playlists